We all want the perfect fairy tale relationship, but sometimes it doesn’t work out that way. We may often times not know the things we are doing wrong and eventually things start to south. The good news is there are a few tips that may help you get the perfect relationship you dream of.

  • Communication: This may seem like a cliché advice, but men do not read minds. Communicate your needs as much as you can. You cannot expect your man to know what is on your mind, constantly remind him in a loving way and do not turn it into nagging.
  • Compliments: As much as women love compliments, men love them as well. Remind of all the things you find cute about him. When he does something nice, tell him how much you appreciate him. Compliment his looks, praise him for the little things.
  • You are a Team: Always remember that it is you both against the problem and not you against each other. Do not argue to win, but to solve the situation at hand. You are both working towards the same goal, which is to solve the problem and be happy.
  • Keep your Friends: Make sure you do not lose yourself in trying to keep your relationship and that includes keeping your friends. Take the space you need to be friends and make sure the relationship is not taking over your life. Even though your relationship should be a priority, it shouldn’t be your only priority. You will need the support and comfort of your friends sometimes.
  • Do not Compare: No two individual is the same, hence no two relationship can be the same. Never compare your boyfriend/husband to your ex, your friend’s partner or their friends. “Comparison is the thief of joy”- Thoedore Roosevelt.



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